How do you say goodbye for the second time?

[greendaypunk16]

My grandfather is in the hospital for 5 forms of cancer. Bowle, lung, throat, kidney and bone cancer. Well the doctor told my mom today that it was to far gone anf there was reall ynothing thet can do for him. I have already lost one grandfather to cancer I dont want to lose another.. But if I do how do I say good bye for a second time?

[carkey]

First of all, I'm so sorry, which is probably not what you want to hear but I am.

I'm not sure if you believe in a higher power or not, but I do, and the thought of being able to remeet with your loved ones is what keeps me going.

If you don't, remember that he is probably in a lot of pain, and even though it doesn't feel like it, it'll likely be a relief for him to pass.

As for what to say, be sure to assure him that you love him.

Big hug. =(

[Phankam]

I'm really sorry. I know how hard is to lose someone to cancer (my grandmother died from it in 1999, and I didn't get to say goodbye. I hadn't seen or talked to her in like 4 months when she died). You just have to make sure you love him... I mean, like Carleigh said, he's probably in pain, and it'll likely be a relief for him to pass. As I said [and Carleigh too], just make sure he knows how much you love him. *hug*

[greendaypunk16]

I know and I do love him but its hard to lose some one else

[Phankam]

I know it's hard, I has happened quiet some times to me... but just think that at least he won't be in pain anymore, and he'll be way better *nods*

[greendaypunk16]

I know but it still hurts